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How to Attract Girls
Do you have friends that always appear to be “Chick Magnets”?
Do you ask yourself, “What do they have that I don’t? “
Wonder what girls find attractive?
It could even be a little something that may seem insignificant to you, such as “good hygiene”.
If you are in the dark about what girls find attractive, read on for some pointers.
Just remember every girl is going to be a little different in respect to what they are seeking in personality and looks. However, looking at the grand scheme of things, we can come up with some obvious places for improvement.
Do the best you can with what you’ve got......
Even if you are not the best looking guy around, you can make up for it in:
1) Good Grooming: First impressions do tend to mean something so try to make yourself appear as attractive as you are capable of if you want to get a girl’s attention. I shouldn’t have to say this to most, but, take a shower daily and brush your teeth after meals when possible. You may not smell anything, but I guarantee that girls have a keen sense of smelling something rotten. Keep your hair clean and neat. If it is long, then make sure it is a good look for you. Ask your friends what they think if you are not sure. Wear the best (clean) everyday clothes that you have even if you haven’t any of the over-priced labels.
2) Pleasant Personality: Nobody likes to be around a negative person or potty-mouth, so if this sounds like you, start trying to make a change for the better. This will improve all aspects of your life, now and in the future.
Respect and manners......
If you are interested in finding a girl who has something going for her, then she will notice if you show respect and have manners. Doing things like opening doors and refraining from talking trash around her (or about her) will go a long way.
Don’t wait for the girl to make the first move......
Most girls want the guys to make the first move. This is just the way it is so get over your fear of it. That doesn’t mean you have to come on strong or obnoxious. It helps to have a sense of humor because girls usually like guys who can make them laugh. It could be a great ice-breaker. Try to come up with something funny, without being offensive. Compliments are always a nice way to talk to a girl if they are sincere and not overdone. For example, “You are the most beautiful girl in the world!” is definitely over the top.
Don't become obsessed with a girl, ever......
Once you have started taking an interest in a girl don’t become fixated with just her. This happens to a lot of guys. They meet someone, think she is great, and the next thing you know, they are completely stuck on her. They talk about her all of the time, and she becomes all that they think about. Girls of any substance will not find a clingy, needy-type guy attractive. Be involved with other things that will keep you well-rounded and interesting, such as sports, hobbies, volunteering or a job, just to name a few.