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Dear Goosie:

My ex Alex is trying to break me and my boyfriend Tim up. I just don't
understand why he's interfering into my relationship with me and my boyfriend.

Problem with Ex-Boyfriend

Dear Problem with Ex-Boyfriend:

That's not very nice of your ex. But if he’s your ex, then obviously he’s your ex for a reason. I don’t think Alex would be trying to get between you and Tim unless he was jealous and wanted you back… which I’m going to guess is the case. If you love Tim though, just don’t communicate with Alex and avoid whatever nonsense he has to say. I’m not sure how he’s “interfering”, but if all else fails, get a restraining order. I’ve heard that works quite well. On the other hand, live your relationship to the fullest with Tim and hopefully Alex will realize that it’s pointless to get in the way.

Goosie

Dear Goosie:

Me and my boyfriend dated for a year and a half then he started to change over the past month and finally said he wasn't feeling it anymore and lost the spark, so he dumped me. He said that he still loves me and he just needs to get his stress level down and live his live? (were pretty young) is this just an excuse? He said he still wants to talk but he barely replies to my messages, he said he'd remind me of that he still loves me. Well he hasn't been doing that..I'm so confused like he says he still loves me but he dumped me? what do I do to get him to get the spark back ?

How  To Get My Ex Back

Dear “How to Get My Ex Back”:

If all else fails, remember that there are so many other girls going through the same thing. I went through it myself just six months ago! He said the same things – he needed to “live his life”, and he was “stressed”, yet he kept telling me he “loved” me... though it just didn’t seem real. I did the only logical thing I could do – I pretended to have moved on. It wasn’t easy by any means, but eventually he realized what he lost and how stupid he was do have broken up with me. I can’t say this is how your ex will be, because no guy is the same. But if he dumped you then don’t waste any more time on him, because he simply isn’t worth your effort. Just be yourself, live your life, and someday, sooner or later, he’ll realize what he lost. If he’s worth it, the “spark” will come back. And if he really did love you, the “spark” wouldn’t have ever left in the first place. If you need further advice, just remember I’m here to give you my professional mind assistance. I hope all goes well.

Goosie

 

Dear Goosie:

BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS, I AM MADLY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT FEELS HE DON'T FEEL THE SAME. NEED SOME ADVICE ON HOW TO HANDLE THIS RELATIONSHIP...HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A PLAYER BUT SAYS HE WANTS TO CHANGE..WE HAVE SPLIT UP TWICE FOR ABOUT A MONTH EACH TIME. NOW I HAVE GIVEN HIM ANOTHER CHANCE AND WANT TO TRUST HIM BUT CANT WHAT SHOULD I DO

IS MY RELATIONSHIP DOOMED?

Dear “Is My Relationship Doomed?”

You cannot make yourself trust someone. Trust comes naturally. He may SAY he wants to change, but just remember that actions speak louder than words. You will know in your heart if he really feels the way you do – remember, it’s not the words he says but the choices he makes and actions he takes. I can’t tell you how many chances you should give him, because that’s up to your own discretion. All I can say is that if he really loves you like you love him, there is no reason for the relationship to fail. Just give it your all, and if that’s not enough, then he obviously isn’t worth it.

Goosie

 

Dear Goosie:

There is a girl that I like a lot. And we were good friends. We did some stuff together and I promised that I wouldn't tell anyone. But I was honestly so excited that I made the mistake of telling my best friend. The only thing is, he and his brother are both friends with her as well. His brother found out and ended up telling her that I told what had happened. She texted me and was more angry at me than ever before. I still care about her greatly and I wish I knew how to make it better or if it would be better if I just got over her. 

Girl Troubles

Dear Girl Troubles:

That sounds like a dilemma... but that’s obviously why you wrote to me. The best advice I can give you is to apologize to her if you haven’t already. Let her know how much you care. You broke a promise to this girl, so try to understand her point of view... I’d be angry, too. I cannot tell you ways to prove to her that you’re sorry, but that’s because I don’t know her. You obviously do, though, so just be sincere and if she still refuses to talk to you, then she isn’t worth your time. And next time, make sure you don’t tell people secrets if you can’t trust them to keep their mouths shut.

I hope everything goes well for you, and if you have any more problems, feel free to request more advice. 

Goosie